Conversations with JUNE DOYLE

While you can’t control everything that comes your way, you can learn to control your attitude, emotions, thoughts and responses.

To get to the next level, you have to stop living in the past. Sometimes we block our own blessings by holding on to things that drain our energy and makes us emotionally bankrupt.

Getting to a new level requires separation. You are much more than what has happened to you.

Everyone is fighting their own battles, but not everyone lose faith in the battle. You don’t have to prove to anyone that you are a victim of misfortune.

The goal is to become a healthier and happier version of yourself.

Lyrics “All the way my Savior leads me”
All the way my Savior leads me
What have I to ask beside?
Can I doubt His faithful mercies?
Who through life has been my guide
Heavenly peace, divinest comfort
Ere by faith in Him to dwell
For I know whate’er fall me, Jesus doeth all things well.

Prayer Time: Father, thank you for leading us all the way. Give us solutions and make us kind. In Jesus Name, Amen

Conversations with JUNE DOYLE

Poet John Greenleaf Whittier wrote, ‘For all sad words of tongue and pen; the saddest are these, “It might have been.”

How many times we miss chances we should have taken because of what someone said or done to us.

Can I gently remind you that wicked people’s light goes out faster than the honest person who does what’s right.

The saddest words – ‘It might have been’ must be avoided at all cost. Take your power back. It might have been can turn into ‘Here I am and I’m so thankful that I didn’t give up.’

I don’t believe in competing with anyone, just be confident that you are standing on a tile with your name on it. If you are not standing on your tile, get off it. The good, bad, and the ugly are all part of the plan.

Remember that no one is dimming their light for you, be alert and keep your light on high beam. You are always loved right when you are real. Having values allows you to find your path and see others who are going there too.

No more ‘should have, could have, and would have.’ They are all lame excuses. You are never too old to dream again is a great motivator. Believe you can do it and it will be done. The beginning is always the hardest. Trust the process.

There’s nothing wrong in wishing that you didn’t start earlier, the fact is that you are here and you are proud to do it as well as you can.

Conversations with JUNE DOYLE

Are you hanging on by a thread?

In Ecclesiastes 4:12, the Bible tells us that “though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.”

This type of braiding a cord makes it very difficult to break. It doesn’t mean it can’t be broken … it just means it’s harder to do. We need each other to do life. I need you just as much as you need me. We were created for relationships. This includes relationship with God and with others. Being alone was never God’s plan for us.

Love is contagious. Love God and love others
and watch how the thread you are hanging on to turn into a braided rope. It’s normal to feel lonely at times, but it is amazing how your courage and boldness can increase when you are not standing by yourself.

Remember, we were never created to be alone. When you are tired you will appreciate those around you helping you to make it.

Nightmares cannot whisper away things that God has spoken to you in the day time.

Can I tell you one of my pet peeves? People who have too much pride to make friends. Remember we can do much more together. The beauty of a three-strand cord is that it makes you stronger.

God knew this from the beginning of times. Find friends who will build your faith and you can build theirs. Pray that God will bring the right people into your life.

May God give us faith building friends to do this life with. We need friends who will walk and pray with us through the hard places in life, and who will celebrate the good things in life.

If your friends aren’t approved by God then they shouldn’t be approved by you. God will back you up if two of you agree on earth concerning anything, it will be done for them by our Father in heaven.

Conversations with JUNE DOYLE

Welcome to Monday.

We confess with our mouths that today is going to be a good day.

Satan studies each one of us in very detailed ways. He knows what triggers us and how we will respond to everything. He keeps hitting at the core of our emotions to get a reaction.

The best kept secrets about Satan – He never changes his tactics. He has all the patience in the world waiting for you to blow it, drop it, throw it, hide it, and deny it. He knows how to push those buttons to get you to do or say something stupid which causes problems for you or harms your chances of success.

Stop everything you’re doing, take a long deep breath, and think of other ways to handle the situation. Be selective in what you see, do, and what you hear. Your courage and persistence are being tested.

You ask “How long will this testing last?” The truth is, only God knows. Satan is persistent, so you must be too. When it comes to prayer, it’s your greatest defense against Satan’s limited tricks.

You alone are no match for Satan’s antics. You will never have all the details needed, but prayers always keeps you moving in the right direction.

Remember, the day you pray is not the day your prayers are answered. The prayers of a person living right with God is not something easy to ignore.

DR. KRISSY – VIDEO ON THOUGHTS

YOUR ONE MINUTE with DR. KRISSY 🧠

“THOUGHTS” 💭 💭💭💭💭

Thoughts are physical entities in our brain. At first instance they are novel. 👉🏾👉🏾👉🏾👉🏾 If we accept them, ponder them and internalize them our brain sees them as important and builds physical circuitry in our brain to aid in automatic recall when triggered.

Thoughts are shaped by our life experiences and become the foundation for future thoughts, decisions and perceptions.

🛑 So it is very important that we guard our brain and be mindful about what we chose to think, accept and believe as true. Because our decision will physically change our brain.

Dr. KRISSY – VIDEO

YOUR ONE MINUTE with Dr. KRISSY. Neuroscientist and Professor 🧠

“ASSUMPTIONS”

Assumptions are beliefs that we hold to be true, often regardless of the facts.

In actuality our brain makes assumptions to save us time and energy. 👉🏾 The brain is wired to convince us we are right, even when we are wrong.

🤔 A psychological phenomenon called confirmation bias causes us to ignore information that is inconsistent with our beliefs.

It does this because 👉🏾👉🏾👉🏾 anytime we HEAR information that SUPPORTS our ASSUMPTIONS , the brain ACTIVATES areas in the prefrontal cortex associated with other reward.

❌ BUT these ASSUMPTIONS CREATE blind spots that PREVENTS you from seeing what is really going on. And it might be a STUMBLING BLOCK to progress that leads us in the WRONG direction. Especially when we value relationship and opportunities.

Ideally we need to shine a light on those blind spots and ASK QUESTIONS.

Grown Up Conversations with JUNE DOYLE

Quote: “If you want to fly with the eagles, don’t swim with the ducks.”

🦅 Eagles sit on the top of a branch with its head tilted observing all that’s happening around them. They observe, listen, watches in silence, and fly above the noise.

“But those who trust the Lord will find new strength. They will be strong like eagles soaring upward on wings; they will walk and run without getting tired.”
‭‭Isaiah‬ ‭40:31‬ ‭CEV‬‬

🦆 Ducks on the other hand, swim around and just quack all day. Complaining about circumstances never solve anything. It’s like sitting in a rocking chair. It gives you something to do, but it gets you nowhere.

“I have given you the power to trample on snakes and scorpions and to defeat the power of your enemy Satan. Nothing can harm you.”
‭‭Luke‬ ‭10:19‬ ‭CEV‬‬

🦆 You can choose to quack and complain all day, or you can decide to take the higher road.

🦅 It is said that In the storm, eagles spread its wings using the storm current to soar to great heights. Your confidence in God’s ability to take care of all that concerns you will allow you to ride out the storm.

Your current situation is not your final destination.

🦅 Soaring like an eagle will get you out of the things that are disturbing your peace. You never know how high you can go unless you first decide to soar. Just think and imagine where life can take you if you only believe all things are possible.

🦅 Where there’s hope, there’s life. Live with great expectations and do whatever it takes to soar above your current situation. Let your values, beliefs, confidence, and courage take you to new heights.

🦆 You don’t make a difference by making a lot of noise and complaining.

🦅 Keep an eagle mindset if you want to soar, OR live around ducks if you want to complain and make some noise.

All it takes is a leap of faith, fresh air, and the imagination of flying high to touch the sky 🦅